Summary:
Children
from divorced families are on "average" somewhat worse than children who have lived in intact
families. These children have more difficulty in school, more behavior
problems, more negative self-concepts, more problems with peers, and more
trouble getting along with their parents. Several types of risks that may
contribute to children's difficulties. These are:
a. Parental
loss
b. Economic
loss
c. More
life stress
d. Poor
parental adjustment
e. Lack
of parental competence
f. Exposure
to conflict between parents.
Reflection:
I
like this article. The
author presents the topic clearly accompanied by reasons. Not only includes a proof of the results of several
researchers, but writers also include a percentage figure. Topics discussed
through several issues of:
1.
Are children of divorce
worse of than children in married two-parent families?
2.
What causes the differences
between children in divorced versus intact families?
3.
What evidence do we have
about how each of these factors affects children in divorced families?
4.
And Why do children and
young adults from divorced families still seem to be more distressed than
children from intact families?
Discussion of
the subject
matter
covered
by
each.
So the reader
more easily
understand
what is actually
discussed
in the article.
How does
the growth of
the children
were
very influential
in
determining
the nature of each
child.
Some
problems in
the child's life
can
have an impact on
the child's
soul.
Separation of
both parents
because of
divorce
for example.
Children
desperately need
both parents
in a period of
growth and development.
What happens
if
both parents
are not
there
beside him
when
he
really
needs them?
the growth
and development of children
will be slightly
disturbed.
Most of them
do things that may harm themself. For example silence that could cause it to be
a closed, silent, and morose. Some of them are also not common to do negative
things like promiscuity to forget their troubles. It was really not good for
children's development. I
really
feel
sorry for
those who live without
parents
intact.
They
suffer
distress
that are harmful to
the child's development.
and of course
the situation of children
living
with only
one of
their
family
is worse
than those
who
lived with
both parents.
For parents
should before making a farewell, first consider how the fate of their baby.
Thinking about what happens to them if you have to live with only one parent,
how he's feeling, and how her development.
Parents
should learn
more about how
to solve
their problems,
and how
to avoid
separation.
If a
divorce
is necessary,
before
deciding try
to relive
their youth
who
love each
other.
They can recalling
fond memories of time together, when the
baby was born, etc.
There are any ways
to
resolve the
problem
before it
leads to
a
separation.
Separation
might bring the child
away
from the
person she
loved.
Children living
in
single parent families
tend to have
the economic resources
of
children living
in
intact
families.
Loss of contact with one parent
and the children were lost skills and
resources of the old man. Resulted
in many changes in life situations such as changing children's school, day care, home, etc. And much more impact than a divorce.
I ever met with a children, he is 9 old
year. His parent has break home. The effect he have been quietly and his school
is not good. Because of it he didn’t have friends and his scors in the school
was fall. I felt so sad and disappointed with his parent. So, I hope all parent
in this world don’t break home because many effect from it.
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